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| − | The following resources offer suggestions for how allies (including men) |
+ | The following resources offer suggestions for how allies (including men) can support women in geek communities. |
== Supporting feminism and anti-sexism in general == |
== Supporting feminism and anti-sexism in general == |
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* Learn about the dangers of [[Feminism 101 discussions]] and do your own reading and thinking and listening, rather than treating feminists as on-tap educators |
* Learn about the dangers of [[Feminism 101 discussions]] and do your own reading and thinking and listening, rather than treating feminists as on-tap educators |
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* Avoid [[Elementary mistakes]] |
* Avoid [[Elementary mistakes]] |
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| + | ** Such as [[Bad sexism comebacks]] (there are also [[Good sexism comebacks]]) |
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| − | * [http://synecdochic.livejournal.com/214607.html Don't Be That Guy] by synecdochic |
+ | * [http://synecdochic.livejournal.com/214607.html Don't Be That Guy] by [[Denise Paolucci|synecdochic]] |
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+ | * [http://www.xyonline.net/content/tools-white-guys-who-are-working-social-change%E2%80%A6-and-other-people-socialized-society-based-do Tools for White Guys who are Working for Social Change] (and other people socialized in a society based on domination) |
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+ | * [http://www.empirecontact.com/libera/2007/11/suggestions-for-men-regarding-conduct.html 12 helpful suggestions for men regarding conduct in feminist spaces] |
| + | * [http://www.jennagretsch.com/gender_inclusive_IT_presentation/index.php How to give a Gender Inclusive IT presentation] by Jenna Gretsch |
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* [http://sophiaserpentia.livejournal.com/838741.html being an ally part 1: listening to anger] |
* [http://sophiaserpentia.livejournal.com/838741.html being an ally part 1: listening to anger] |
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+ | * [http://www.hugoschwyzer.net/2006/05/25/words-are-not-fists-some-thoughts-on-how-men-work-to-defuse-feminist-anger/ Words are not fists: some thoughts on how men work to defuse feminist anger] |
* [http://uts.cc.utexas.edu/~rjensen/freelance/quagmireofmasculinity.htm The quagmire of masculinity] by [http://uts.cc.utexas.edu/~rjensen/index.html Robert Jensen] (and [http://uts.cc.utexas.edu/~rjensen/articles_gender.html other Robert Jensen articles]) |
* [http://uts.cc.utexas.edu/~rjensen/freelance/quagmireofmasculinity.htm The quagmire of masculinity] by [http://uts.cc.utexas.edu/~rjensen/index.html Robert Jensen] (and [http://uts.cc.utexas.edu/~rjensen/articles_gender.html other Robert Jensen articles]) |
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* [http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2008/04/11/feministe-feedback-being-a-feminist-boyfriend/ Feministe Feedback: Being a Feminist Boyfriend] |
* [http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2008/04/11/feministe-feedback-being-a-feminist-boyfriend/ Feministe Feedback: Being a Feminist Boyfriend] |
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* [http://theangryblackwoman.com/2009/10/01/the-dos-and-donts-of-being-a-good-ally/ The Do’s and Don’ts of Being a Good Ally] from [http://theangryblackwoman.com/ Angry Black Woman]. |
* [http://theangryblackwoman.com/2009/10/01/the-dos-and-donts-of-being-a-good-ally/ The Do’s and Don’ts of Being a Good Ally] from [http://theangryblackwoman.com/ Angry Black Woman]. |
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* [http://www.ted.com/talks/tony_porter_a_call_to_men.html Tony Porter: A Call to Men] (TED talk video) |
* [http://www.ted.com/talks/tony_porter_a_call_to_men.html Tony Porter: A Call to Men] (TED talk video) |
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| + | * [http://www.anamardoll.com/2012/11/deconstruction-how-to-be-male-ally.html Deconstruction: How To Be A (Male) Ally] |
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| + | * [http://www.flosspols.org/deliverables/FLOSSPOLS-D16-Gender_Integrated_Report_of_Findings.pdf FLOSSPOLS - Integrated Report of Findings on Gender] |
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| + | * [http://www.flosspols.org/deliverables/FLOSSPOLS-D17-Gender_Policy_Recommendations.pdf FLOSSPOLS - Gender Policy Recommendations] |
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== Understanding privilege == |
== Understanding privilege == |
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* [http://blog.shrub.com/archives/tekanji/2006-03-08_146 “Check my what?” On privilege and what we can do about it] |
* [http://blog.shrub.com/archives/tekanji/2006-03-08_146 “Check my what?” On privilege and what we can do about it] |
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* [http://www.thefword.org.uk/features/2008/06/men_feminism_ne Men, Feminism Needs You! (Not Your Privilege)] |
* [http://www.thefword.org.uk/features/2008/06/men_feminism_ne Men, Feminism Needs You! (Not Your Privilege)] |
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+ | * [http://isisthescientist.com/2009/05/12/comrade_physioprofs_handy-dand/ Comrade PhysioProf's Handy-Dandy Guide For D00dly Commenters] - advice particularly relevant to blogs and comments |
* [http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2009/10/rape-culture-101.html Rape Culture 101] - Understanding Rape Culture |
* [http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2009/10/rape-culture-101.html Rape Culture 101] - Understanding Rape Culture |
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| + | * [http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2011/11/nerds-and-male-privilege/all/1/ Nerds and Male Privilege] , [http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2012/01/nerds-and-male-privilege-part-2/all/1/ Part 2] |
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| + | * [http://whatever.scalzi.com/2012/05/15/straight-white-male-the-lowest-difficulty-setting-there-is/ Sraight White Male: The Lowest Difficulty Setting There Is] |
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== Supporting women in geek communities == |
== Supporting women in geek communities == |
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* Look at how best to [[Recruiting women|recruit women]] to your project and how to [[Promotion to women|promote]] communities, events and products. |
* Look at how best to [[Recruiting women|recruit women]] to your project and how to [[Promotion to women|promote]] communities, events and products. |
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* Consider how to run [[women-friendly events]]. |
* Consider how to run [[women-friendly events]]. |
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| + | * [[Interacting with women]]. |
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* Learn about [http://geekfeminism.org/2010/05/31/ask-a-geek-feminist-the-definitive-women-in-csstem-resource-thread/ why women are a numerical minority] in many geeky careers. |
* Learn about [http://geekfeminism.org/2010/05/31/ask-a-geek-feminist-the-definitive-women-in-csstem-resource-thread/ why women are a numerical minority] in many geeky careers. |
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* [http://tldp.org/HOWTO/Encourage-Women-Linux-HOWTO/ HOWTO Encourage Women in Linux] by [[Valerie Aurora]] |
* [http://tldp.org/HOWTO/Encourage-Women-Linux-HOWTO/ HOWTO Encourage Women in Linux] by [[Valerie Aurora]] |
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* [http://www.freesoftwaremagazine.com/columns/ten_easy_ways_attract_women_your_free_software_project Ten easy ways to attract women to your free software project] (note that this article contains a lot of un-examined [[Essentialism|gender essentialism]]; you may wish to read it with a critical eye, and consider how much you agree with what is described there.) |
* [http://www.freesoftwaremagazine.com/columns/ten_easy_ways_attract_women_your_free_software_project Ten easy ways to attract women to your free software project] (note that this article contains a lot of un-examined [[Essentialism|gender essentialism]]; you may wish to read it with a critical eye, and consider how much you agree with what is described there.) |
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* [http://cavlec.yarinareth.net/2007/03/30/what-some-folks-can-do-if-they-choose/ What some folks can do, if they choose] by [[Dorothea Salo]], a description of possible helpful responses to sexism that men could make |
* [http://cavlec.yarinareth.net/2007/03/30/what-some-folks-can-do-if-they-choose/ What some folks can do, if they choose] by [[Dorothea Salo]], a description of possible helpful responses to sexism that men could make |
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| − | * [http://www.feministgamers.com/?page_id=148 Feminist Gamers: It's about choice] A response to the common argument that video games where women are highly sexualized aren't a problem because playing the game is a matter of choice. |
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* [http://blogs.gnome.org/bolsh/2010/03/05/stfu-2/ Dave Neary on shutting up more in meetings] (inspired by [http://www.danspalding.com/articles/stfu.html a Dan Spalding piece] ) |
* [http://blogs.gnome.org/bolsh/2010/03/05/stfu-2/ Dave Neary on shutting up more in meetings] (inspired by [http://www.danspalding.com/articles/stfu.html a Dan Spalding piece] ) |
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| + | * [http://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2013/01/a-simple-suggestion-to-help-phase-out-all-male-panels-at-tech-conferences/266837/ Refuse to speak on all male panels] |
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| + | == Articles == |
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| + | *[http://www.ipolitics.ca/2012/10/30/canadas-young-women-are-falling-behind/ Canada's Young Women Are Falling Behind] by Devon Black, iPolitics.ca |
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| + | == Other Resources == |
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| + | *[http://www.nasco.coop/sites/default/files/srl/Action%20Camp%20Packet.pdf NASCO Action Camp Ally Workshop Packet] (pdf) |
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== See also == |
== See also == |
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| + | * [[Intersectionality]] for information on axes of oppression other than sexism and how they interact. |
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* [[Feminism 101]] for a non-gender specific overview of introductory material on this wiki. |
* [[Feminism 101]] for a non-gender specific overview of introductory material on this wiki. |
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* [[Allies]] for discussion of feminist men. |
* [[Allies]] for discussion of feminist men. |
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Revision as of 23:54, 19 January 2014
A lot of people want to support women in geek communities, but aren't sure where to start, or don't know whether what they're doing is wanted or appreciated.
The following resources offer suggestions for how allies (including men) can support women in geek communities.
Supporting feminism and anti-sexism in general
- Read up on Feminism 101
- Learn about the dangers of Feminism 101 discussions and do your own reading and thinking and listening, rather than treating feminists as on-tap educators
- Avoid Elementary mistakes
- Such as Bad sexism comebacks (there are also Good sexism comebacks)
- Don't Be That Guy by synecdochic
- Tools for White Guys who are Working for Social Change (and other people socialized in a society based on domination)
- 12 helpful suggestions for men regarding conduct in feminist spaces
- How to give a Gender Inclusive IT presentation by Jenna Gretsch
- being an ally part 1: listening to anger
- Words are not fists: some thoughts on how men work to defuse feminist anger
- The quagmire of masculinity by Robert Jensen (and other Robert Jensen articles)
- Feministe Feedback: Being a Feminist Boyfriend
- Stuff What Boys Can Do: Harriet over at Fugitivus is collecting "examples, anecdotes, and stories...for men that want to help but don’t know what to do."
- The Do’s and Don’ts of Being a Good Ally from Angry Black Woman.
- Tony Porter: A Call to Men (TED talk video)
- Deconstruction: How To Be A (Male) Ally
- FLOSSPOLS - Integrated Report of Findings on Gender
- FLOSSPOLS - Gender Policy Recommendations
Understanding privilege
- Privilege checklist - includes links to various privilege checklists
- “Check my what?” On privilege and what we can do about it
- Men, Feminism Needs You! (Not Your Privilege)
- Comrade PhysioProf's Handy-Dandy Guide For D00dly Commenters - advice particularly relevant to blogs and comments
- Rape Culture 101 - Understanding Rape Culture
- Nerds and Male Privilege , Part 2
- Sraight White Male: The Lowest Difficulty Setting There Is
Supporting women in geek communities
- Look at how best to recruit women to your project and how to promote communities, events and products.
- Consider how to run women-friendly events.
- Interacting with women.
- Learn about why women are a numerical minority in many geeky careers.
- HOWTO Encourage Women in Linux by Valerie Aurora
- How not to be a dick - a live video rant by Matthew Garrett (transcription available at Hoyden About Town)
- Ten easy ways to attract women to your free software project (note that this article contains a lot of un-examined gender essentialism; you may wish to read it with a critical eye, and consider how much you agree with what is described there.)
- What some folks can do, if they choose by Dorothea Salo, a description of possible helpful responses to sexism that men could make
- Dave Neary on shutting up more in meetings (inspired by a Dan Spalding piece )
- Refuse to speak on all male panels
Articles
- Canada's Young Women Are Falling Behind by Devon Black, iPolitics.ca
Other Resources
See also
- Intersectionality for information on axes of oppression other than sexism and how they interact.
- Feminism 101 for a non-gender specific overview of introductory material on this wiki.
- Allies for discussion of feminist men.